Saturday

Third Reason for lying






When ever my friends has a problem that is associated with their feelings… I always know what words to say to comfort them… to make them feel better… to make them feel someone still cares… I am sincere with my words… but I can’t say in each and every word… sometimes you need to say what people want to hear… that’s the only way to make them feel better… and yes… sometimes… it involve lies… lying for a good cause… is that a crime??? If you don’t like somebody but you pretend to in front of them… that’s a lie to right??? That could be categorizes as hypocrite… as I say, everyone is a hypocrite… even if they don’t admit it… I this story I could say that I sometimes am a hypocrite…

What goes around comes around… as the saying goes… I lie to comfort people and end up being lie to… just to comfort me… but I realize that… it doesn’t comfort me when I found out the truth… nobody likes to be lie too… they feel dumb when being lie upon… and now I know that all these while trying to comfort people is just adding to their misery by telling lies…

Kiki told me that talk is cheap… at first I go against her point of view… saying that is it a crime to help someone feel better??? Can you blame someone for trying to help you feel better??? But then I discover… a little lie can lead to a big thing… and Kiki, I’m sorry for my comment on your blog post…

Mr. Lova Lova wrote about lying… he said everyday people lie… but he never said the reason why… why people lie… from my point of view… people lie for two reasons… for a good cause and for their own selfish greed… then again… maybe there is a third reason… in which I haven’t discover… well who knows… maybe someone reading this has the third reason…

2 comments:

Akma Laila said...

sigh, hoho. yes, talk is cheap aite. but dont take it for good you know, bacause. sometimes, it is good to lie. to jaga hati and such. and yes, the 3rd reason ever to lie.. i couldnt answer that either. but yes, what happen to you recently?


anything to do, with the blog post i perhaps?

Farel Flitzer said...

hurm... no one seems to know the answer yet...

i'm okey miss kiki.. just trouble in my head... as long as the trouble stays in my head and dont come dont to my heart... i.m okey...